Restoring Civility in Public Life: A Call for Leaders and Citizens

Have you ever felt that the discourse in today's politics and public life is becoming increasingly uncivil? With incidents of leftists lying, cursing, rioting, and promoting hate, it may seem like the only response is to escalate. But is toleration for all actions justified, especially when crimes are committed against us? This article explores the reasons behind this lack of civility and suggests ways to bring it back.

Reasons for an Uncivil Society

The reasons for the lack of civility in politics and public life today are threefold: choice, ignorance, and the shameful examples set by our leaders.

Choice

Every word we choose to use in our speech, writing, and communication contributes to the overall civility or lack thereof. For example, accusing someone of being a "racist" or a "libtard" deliberately creates an environment of division and animosity. Such language is used not just to convey truth, but to agitate, provoke, and disturb. How can civility exist or thrive in such an environment?

Ignorance

Ancient wisdom teaches that "Treat others as you would like to be treated." However, modern society often lacks this basic courtesy. This lack of consideration for others implies a lack of consideration for ourselves. Our treatment of others may reflect how they treat us. If we have not been taught and practiced civility, it is unlikely that we will suddenly develop it.

Shameful Examples of Leaders

The behavior of our leaders often sets a tone for society. Many politicians who win elections continue to engage in negative advertising and divisive rhetoric, suggesting they do not wish to better themselves as people. Instead, they focus on tearing others down. Why do we continue to elect such leaders?

Bringing Civility Back

To restore civility, the challenge is to "be the change you wish to see in others." This starts with simple manners: holding doors for others, helping with small tasks, and using polite language like "please" and "thank you." This extends to communication: eliminating insults, name-calling, and expressing a low tolerance for such language, especially from those we care for, such as our children.

It also involves demanding that leaders at all levels of government be civil, even to those with whom they disagree strongly. This might seem difficult, but it is possible. If enough citizens choose to do the work necessary to improve civility, it can be brought back.

Conclusion

It is time for both leaders and citizens to take responsibility for the civility of our discourse. By consistently choosing polite and considerate words, sharing a common goal of improvement, and demanding that leaders behave civilly, we can restore civility to public life.