Unacceptable Actions by Foreigners in Thailand: A Guide for Explorers

While globalization has brought us closer together, it is important to understand and respect the cultural norms of the country you visit. Thailand, with its rich cultural heritage, adheres to certain behavioral expectations that might differ from those of foreign visitors. Here are some actions that are considered unacceptable by Thai people but are commonly done by foreigners in Thailand:

Being Loud

Thai people value calmness and quietness. Talking or laughing loudly is seen as impolite. In rural areas, Thai people used to live in houses with wooden floors. This meant they needed to walk quietly to avoid disturbing others. Thus, it is essential to speak softly and walk quietly to show respect to the local culture.

Smoking Around Others

Smoking in public places is seen as rude in Thailand. Smoking around people who are not smokers is considered extremely impolite. If you want to smoke, do so in a designated smoking area. Failing to do so can result in disgruntled looks or even a complaint.

Saying Negative Things About Religion or Monarchy

A general rule of thumb is to avoid negative comments about religion or the monarchy. Thai culture places a high emphasis on the integrity of these institutions. Even if you have complaints, it is better to keep them to yourself, especially when speaking to people who may not know you well. Criticizing these institutions is illegal and punishable by law.

Dressing Appropriately

While the climate in Thailand is usually hot and humid, dressing appropriately is crucial. Thai people judge people by their appearance and expect guests to dress respectfully, even in casual settings. Shorts and tank tops are fine in rural areas and at the beach but should be avoided when visiting the city or going to formal gatherings. Wearing long pants, a dress, or a skirt that covers the knees and shoulders is advised. In professional settings, such as offices or shopping malls, dressing properly is essential. I once witnessed an Australian man being told to go home and learn to dress appropriately before he could be issued his visa extension at immigration.

Using Feet for Other Than Walking

Thai culture considers feet to be unclean. Avoid pointing at items, directions, or people with your feet, even if your hands are full. Additionally, do not use your feet to pick up objects or point toes at anything. Keep your feet from being visible as much as possible, especially on public transportation. You should also step over the threshold when entering a temple to show respect.

Pointing Fingers

Pointing with just your fingers is considered rude in many cultures, and this is certainly true in Thailand. Instead, use your whole hand to point, even when giving directions. Pointing with fingers can be seen as a sign of disrespect or impatience.

Using Shoes Indoors

Leaving shoes outside before entering someone's home is a common courtesy in many Asian cultures, including Thailand. This should be done in public areas, even if there is no specific sign indicating this practice. No matter where you are from, it is polite to remove your shoes before entering a home or public building.

Temple Etiquette

When visiting temples in Thailand, there are several rules to follow:

Be quiet and pray quietly. There will be no loudspeakers or shouting prayers as seen in some other religions. Dress modestly. Cover your shoulders and wear clothing that does not expose much of your skin. Wearing white, stretchable material is recommended. Remove your shoes before entering the temple. Do not point your feet towards Buddha statues or monks. Do not step on the threshold or the part under the door frame. It is considered disrespectful. Do not touch unauthorized artifacts. If you encounter monks, bow or sit in a manner that is lower than them as a sign of respect.

Chivalry in Thailand

Thai culture places a high value on chivalry, and men are expected to show respect to women in public. This includes opening doors for women, carrying their bags, and offering their seats to those in need. This rule applies to all public places.

While it may take some time to fully understand and adapt to these cultural norms, following them will make your experience in Thailand much more enjoyable. You will also earn the respect of the locals, and you might even notice how these norms soften the hearts of even the staunchest of foreigners over time.