What Attitude Should a Norwegian Man Have?

The attitude of a Norwegian man like anyone else can vary widely based on personal beliefs, experiences, and cultural influences. However, there are some cultural traits that are often associated with Norwegians. These traits provide a general framework for understanding the attitudes that are often found within Norwegian culture.

Cultural Traits of Norwegian Men

Equality and Humility: Norwegians generally value equality and modesty. A humble attitude is often appreciated, and boasting is usually frowned upon.

Openness and Directness: Communication in Norway tends to be straightforward. Being honest and direct in conversations is valued, and it is common to express opinions openly.

Respect for Nature: Many Norwegians have a strong connection to nature and value outdoor activities. An appreciation for the environment and a lifestyle that includes outdoor pursuits can be an important aspect of a Norwegian man's attitude.

Camaraderie and Community: There is often a sense of community and togetherness in Norwegian culture. Valuing friendships and social connections is important.

Work-Life Balance: Norwegians typically prioritize a healthy work-life balance. A positive attitude toward leisure time and family is common.

Pragmatism: A practical approach to life's challenges is often seen. This includes being resourceful and finding sensible solutions to problems.

Reflections on Norwegian Attitudes

These cultural traits are not universal; not every individual in Norway will embody all of these traits. However, they provide a framework for understanding the attitudes that are often found within Norwegian culture.

There is a famous poem from the Viking Age, Hávamál, which suggests how to behave honourably. It states, 'The one of the bright counsel shall gain more. Hail him bed reneweth. My father, my mother, my dearest ones, the community provides the most in joy.' Several translations into English can be found online. A much later set of advice is the Law of Jante.

Current Attitudes and Shortcomings

As someone who lived in Norway, I will comment on the shortcomings in their current attitudes that I experienced and was told/heard about while I was there.

Parental Involvement

One of the most significant shortcomings is parental involvement with their children. Simply taking them hiking once a week on Saturday or Sunday is not being 'involved' with your children. You should know what sports they are playing and be there for their sporting events, musical performances, or whatever they are involved in because it interests you and them.

When it comes to alcohol consumption, the amount of alcohol consumed should not be determined by physical limits but by how much a person can drink without harming their family or making a fool of themselves. Children should not come down stairs to find their father passed out on the floor.

Gender Roles and Protection

Norwegian men should learn to be men in both the physical and metaphorical senses. This means being a protector for your family. Men don't let young men hit on their daughters and don't let their wives walk home through a shady part of Oslo. They are supposed to be protectors or 'bodyguards' in potentially physically threatening situations, regardless of who is in danger.

Acceptance of Physical Violence

Growing up and accepting physical violence as a reality of life is essential. If every capable nation on this planet has a military, then a man should not expect to go through life without needing to defend himself or his loved ones. For example, when a group of drunken travelers make vulgar comments and inappropriate sexual advances at underage girls, a Norwegian man should stand up for them, putting his foot up their butt and making them leave.

Conclusion

In summary, while Norwegian men are often admired for their traits such as equality, humility, and respect for nature, there are areas where they can improve. These include increased parental involvement, learning to be protectors, and accepting physical violence as a reality of life. By embracing these attitudes, Norwegian men can contribute to a stronger, safer, and more respectful society.