What I Really Don’t Like About Spain: Perspectives of a Foreign Resident

Living in Spain can present a mixed bag of experiences. While aspects of Spanish culture, traditions, and even the people can be delightful, my stay has not been without its challenges, particularly when it comes to certain characteristics of the people and the broader societal issues.

The Spanish Character

As a foreigner, the personality of Spanish people has been a topic of observation. In many ways, they are incredibly charming with a vibrant and well-natured disposition. However, several standout issues have made me question and dislike certain aspects of the culture.

Manipulative and Racist: I have noticed a tendency within certain segments of the population to be manipulative and intolerant. Instances of racism, particularly against minority groups both inside and outside the country, have been disconcerting. Jealousy and Insecurity: The notion of envy or a complex of envy—where individuals try to pull others down if they succeed—has been deeply troubling. This can make social interactions challenging and leads to a pervasive feeling of insecurity among the population.

These traits are not just isolated incidents but patterns that have come to define certain social and cultural dynamics in the country. Each of these issues contributes to a collective frustration that is palpable.

Personal Dislike: Language and History

Adding to the mix is my personal aversion to the language and historical context. Initially, my efforts to embrace the language, now technically part of my heritage, have been met with a sense of revulsion. Speaking Spanish feels like stepping back into a painful part of my cultural history, one of colonization and violence.

Historically, Spain’s role in colonizing and exploiting my ancestors has left me with a profound sense of injustice. Attempting to move past this legacy is a difficult task, and every moment spent in Spain, struggling with the language, perpetuates these unresolved feelings.

Implications of the Current Climate

As a foreigner, I have witnessed the defensive mentality that often greets critical remarks about Spain. The backlash from defensive Spanish trolls can be fierce, despite the validity of some concerns. It is a testament to the complex socio-political landscape that such comments often provoke hostility in some quarters.

The Lived Experience

One reason for my apprehension towards questioning Spain publicly is the received wisdom and narratives that surround the country. The image of Spain as a land of sunshine, flamenco, and beaches can overshadow the realities of a society plagued by issues such as corruption, regional disparities, and a complex political history.

Personal stories and experiences, like those of Alvaro Alvarez, reflect the tensions between admiration for Spanish culture and the very real challenges that persist. Authentic voices and stories need to be heard, yet they often face resistance from those seeking to maintain a particular narrative.

Others, however, view Spain differently. Some with Spanish ancestry and a strong Catholic identity, for instance, see Spain as a place they identify with deeply. For them, the complexity of societal issues is part of their heritage and, at times, a source of pride.

Conclusion

Living in Spain, one can’t help but be aware of the contradictions and complexities of the country. From the people to the language and the history, various facets of the Spanish experience can be challenging. While each criticism comes with a provocation, understanding and acknowledging these issues is crucial in building a more inclusive and honest dialogue about Spain.

The journey for an honest and respectful conversation about Spain requires a balance of both admiration and critique, recognizing the multifaceted nature of the country and its people.